As a foreword: A fairly bad essay about technology—specifically, digital tools and screens—is making the rounds this week, and I was prompted to dig some old notes out of storage and write the following. It is not a response to that essay, which I won’t even cite, because there are far too many of them. Instead of responding to arguments or taking sides I’m going to pull back and work through a framework for thinking about the available positions. I did not anticipate where I wound up, and as I say it was a bit of thinkpiece, but I’m certain enough of where I ended to file it under “Manifestoes.” You may or may not find it useful.
When confronted with a potentially dangerous technology there are essentially three possible responses. The first is to embrace it optimistically, use it without reservation, and hope for the best. That being both fairly obviously foolish and also more or less the norm of twenty-first global society it has no need of defense, so let’s set it aside. (I you disagree, you’re not going to enjoy what follows, so I’ll set you aside as well.) I’m interested in the other two responses, each of which shows a kind of wisdom—but a different kind, philosophically incompatible, yet both of which may be not only necessary but codependent.
The first is what I’ll call the tao of technology. This is the idea that all things have use to the one who uses them wisely. The sage, in other words. The sage can carry a smart phone in his pocket without continually pulling it out and staring at it, either because he knows that to do so would be foolish or because he has adapted the device to quit distracting him—because he has created some architecture of nondistractability, we might say, either internal or external. The sage can use so-called artificial intelligence to learn about the world in ways formerly impossible without outsourcing his thinking to the machine or growing dependent on it for essential communication skills, because he knows his own mind and has cultivated discipline. And so on.
The second approach let’s call the taboo. Given a tool that people are likely to abuse, it is best to ban it or, at least, heavily restrict its use. A taboo is essentially a law, but doesn’t have to take the form of public law; it may be personal. Acknowledging that I would be better off without a smart phone in my pocket, I might get rid of it and buy a flip phone. I might boycott not only AI tools but those who use them.
But a personal taboo is hard to enforce. In fact, the discipline required to enforce a personal taboo against a tool is exactly the discipline required to use the tool well in the first place, which means that it is an option available only to the sage. A taboo, to be a taboo, must be externally enforced. Again, it doesn’t require an act of Congress. A community might, like the Old Order Amish once did, adopt telephones and automobiles only to decide that it had been more Christlike before, and agree to rip out the wires and sell their cars—dissent coming at the cost of expulsion from the community. Or it might be like the friend you meet at the gym, who will bug you if you miss a workout.
Of course to adopt even a communal taboo requires wisdom; it only recognizes that while the spirit may be willing, the flesh is weak. My own “architecture of nondistractability” involves taking social media apps off my phone, which is really a kind of taboo, but one that comes from (I believe) wisdom, and which helps me to use the device in ways that better serve my life. It’s usually the case that good decisions come from experience, and that experience comes from bad decisions. But real wisdom, the wisdom of the sage, is not merely an ad-hoc bundle of taboos but a sixth sense that guides decisions about new tools in light of some ultimate end—human flourishing, a good life—albeit a sense that, when given shape as a particular action, looks like a taboo.
You might think of the tao as individual and the taboo as communal, or of the tao as internal and the taboo as external, or (as I prefer) of the tao as global and the taboo as particular—or even of the tao as Grace and the taboo as Law. You might think of the waveforms of the tao collapsing into particles of (literally particular!) taboos.

